• You are constantly comparing your own body to other women, disliking the very skin you are in with its smell, shape or how it moves

• You are scared of asserting your boundaries, because you aim to please others or are afraid of rejecting them

• You hardly know much about your pleasure, you have difficulties in surrendering and knowing what it is that you really like or daring to ask for what you want 

• You unconsciously fill the emptiness that you are experiencing with binge eating, hard food restrictions, binging Netflix or other distractions. 

• You are most of your time in control and in your mind and have a hard time to connect to your body, especially to your Pussy

• You are scared of your emotions, you judge yourself and unconsciously try to control what / when / with whom you feel…

• You judge other women, putting them on a pedestal or criticising them

• Love the skin you are in and worship the body you are inhabiting 

• Discover your wants and don’t wants and become a badass Boundary and Desire Expression Queen

• Be confident in knowing what you deserve. (There is nothing more sexy than a woman knowing what she wants and doesn’t want)

• Learn how to (re)connect to the juices within and let them guide you in your day to day life. Resensitizing and activating your Yoni/Vulva/Pussy! 

• Get in touch with your emotions, learn how to hold yourself in their intensity and express your truth

• Dismantle yourself from patriarchal conditioning and show the world who you really are - no more bending or playing small! 

• Resolve your sister wound and live a life aligned with your wild nature!

• Fullpower women who desire to level up and access the power of their Pussy for a life in pleasure, abundance and meaning

• Sisters struggling with self-love, self-acceptance, shame around sexuality and a lack of self-confidence 

• Everyone stuck in victim mentality who want to shift towards being creators and Bosses of their own lives 

• Those who are ready to move beyond shame, judgement, comparison and self-destructive patterns

Ariane Lalakea's mission is to serve others on their path towards liberation and self-empowerment. Her main tool for personal and spiritual growth is sexuality and sexual energy as our innate life force. She is passionate about finding truth and intimacy within, among, and beyond.

Ariane Lalakea is a conscious kink healing practitioner, educator, and facilitator. 

She joined the teaching team at the School of Erotic Mysteries in March 2020 with the Level Up course helping men better understand women's sexuality.

She is co-founder of BliXX, conscious kink experiences, sharing workshops, and retreats to grow personally and spiritually through sexual empowerment and embodiment. She founded intimate inspiration during pandemic, where she offers audio guides for couples to explore intimacy.

She has an academic degree in positive psychology and coaching psychology, a training in conscious sensuality, psychosomatic intelligence, and trauma awareness. Her life is a pleasurable ritual merging wisdom and practices from Yoga, Tantra and Shamanism.